
Working method
Where the body is allowed to speak first
Every person carries their own story.
Sometimes we know that story well. Sometimes we simply feel that something is no longer right. Restlessness, tension, fatigue, loss, fear, or the feeling of being stuck are not always immediately understandable.
In my work, that is not necessary.
We do not start with a perfect analysis, but with what presents itself at that moment. That could be a thought, a physical sensation, an emotion, a memory, or simply the realization that something requires attention.
From there, we explore together what the nervous system reveals and what the body may already know before there are words for it.
Working from alignment
My way of working is relational, body-oriented, and regulation-oriented.
This means that the focus is not on the method, but on the encounter between two people.
I work with attention to the pace at which someone feels safe enough to allow new experiences. Change cannot be forced. It usually arises in small steps when the nervous system experiences sufficient safety to explore something new.
That is why, for me, slowing down is not an interruption of the process.
Often, it *is* the process.
The body as an entry point
Our body carries many experiences that have never been fully stored in words.
Sometimes we notice this through tension, fatigue, physical complaints, or recurring patterns that are difficult to explain.
Body-oriented methods help to pay attention to what cannot yet be fully put into words.
Not because the body has all the answers.
But because it often gives signals that thinking alone finds difficult to reach.
During a session, we therefore listen not only to what is said but also to breathing, silence, tempo, emotions, images, and physical sensations.
Often, it is precisely there that new space emerges.
Brainspotting and other approaches
Brainspotting forms an important basis of my work.
In addition, I draw inspiration from, among others:
• client-centered psychology by Carl Rogers;
• Focusing by Eugene Gendlin;
• insights from neurobiology and nervous system regulation;
• developmental trauma approaches;
• Internal Family Systems;
• systemic and relational work.
For me, these are not isolated techniques. They all help to better understand how people develop, how safety arises, and how recovery can unfold naturally.
The method is never the central focus; the person is.
For whom
People come to me with very different questions.
For example, when they:
• experience stress or overload;
• want to process traumatic events;
• repeatedly fall into the same patterns;
• perceive a lot or process deeply;
• long for more peace, direction, or connection;
• are curious about personal development.
You do not need a diagnosis for this.
Nor do you need to know exactly what is going on.
Often, it is sufficient to notice that you are stuck somewhere or long for more space.
Individual, groups, and consultation
I work individually with groups and with Brainspotting professionals who wish to further deepen their work. In addition, I facilitate consultations for certification, recertification, and ongoing professional development within Brainspotting. Although every form has its own accents, the foundation remains the same:
careful alignment, curiosity, and respect for the pace at which development unfolds.
A first step
Perhaps you already know exactly why you want to get in touch.
Perhaps not. Both are welcome.
A first conversation does not need to prove or solve anything.
Sometimes a process simply begins with the question of whether this is a place that suits you.
